
Shawnita Cosby fixes her daughter Shaniyah's hair before the two head out to Cosby's Great-Grandmother Frieda's house on Tuesday. (©Ken Ritchie/The Madison Courier) Shawnita Cosby spent the majority of her formative years in Wilmington, Del., but she would visit her great-grandmother Frieda Cosby in Hanover each summer. It was during those vacations that she developed what she calls her favorite childhood memories.
"This was home in the summers," Cosby said. "I remember sitting out on her (great-grandmother's) porch and listening to the rain falling on her roof," Cosby said. "Great-grandma Frieda would always know if rain was coming, even if there wasn't a cloud in the sky. She could smell it."
Now that Cosby has a daughter of her own, 5-year-old Shaniyah, she said she wanted to give her a chance to know the woman and the midwestern way of life that influenced her so much in life.
Shaniyah was born in Delaware where Cosby and Shaniyah's father, William Barker, were living at the time.
The load of going to college, working full time and raising a baby in Wilmington became too much for Cosby, so she temporarily gave up on schooling to spend more time with Shaniyah. "My dream has been to be a nurse," Cosby said. "But being a parent is my first priority."
Cosby moved to Hanover about one year ago to help care for her great-grandmother and to give her daughter a chance to live around the matriarch of the family.
Cosby said the connection the two - who have a span of five generations between them - have made has been a blessing to see.
Cosby said that during Thanksgiving of 2005, she looked into the kitchen and saw Shaniyah standing on a chair and working beside her great-great-grandmother and asking lots of questions as she prepared the holiday dinner - something Cosby could remember doing when she was a child. "It was neat to see that."
Frieda Cosby said she was glad to have Shawnita and Shaniyah living in the area. "You can never have too much family around. And it is important to pass lessons on to the new generations."
Cosby is still influenced by her great-grandmother to this day, and she will soon heed her advice and go back to school. Cosby plans to return to school next year to finish her registered nursing degree.
Also, she has been working as a certified nursing assistant at the Waters of Clifty Falls nursing home for about a year.
"With my family by my side, I'll be able to do anything," Cosby said.
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Cosby zips up her daughter's coat while her little girl plays outside their Hanover apartment on Monday. (©Ken Ritchie/The Madison Courier)

Cosby and her daughter Shaniyah listen to Cosby's Great-Grandmother Frieda Cosby as she tells them a story at her home on Tuesday. (©Ken Ritchie/The Madison Courier)