This was a follow up on the guy I photographed ringing the bell for the Salvation Army.
John Parker jokes with his family at their home in Milton on Friday, December 21. Parker has recently turned his life around with help from the Salvation Army. (©Ken Ritchie/The Madison Courier) John Parker doesn't like to focus on or talk about his past problems except to say that he went without work for a "long while" and that he "was headed down the wrong road." When things were better, Parker helped to support his family by working for tree service companies. When things got bad, he was without work and the family relied heavily on his wife Mary's job at Grote Industries.
Then, just before Thanksgiving, Mary was laid off indefinitely.
"It was pretty bad," Parker said. "We didn't think we were going to have a Christmas."
Then, just as Parker said things seemed most dire, a series of events unfolded that have slowly been leading the family back to more sure financial footing.
"Captain Gary has been a big help in every way," Parker said of Capt. Gary Gugala, leader of the local Salvation Army. John said that through the guidance of Gugala, he began going to church, got a job as a bell ringer and was saved two months ago.
"I have known about Jesus for a long time," Parker said. "But I didn't go to church very much and I hadn't really turned my life over to Jesus."
Now, Parker said he knows what is really important. "I was headed down the wrong road. Now I'm on God's road."
On Friday night, the Parker family; John, Mary, John's step-daughter Santana Hendricks, 16, and his daughter Kiara Parker, 8, sat together in the small living room of a home on Coopers Bottom Road in Milton, Ky. Heat radiates from a wood-burning stove that occupies much of the floor space. The accommodations are sparse, but like the stove, warmth emanates from the Parkers.
"We may not have the most stuff in the world but we're rich in spirit," Santana said.
The family's spirits have been lifted in large part they say, by John's new focus and motivation.
"His job has helped his self-esteem," Mary Parker said, adding that John had been down on himself throughout his unemployment. "He's been a new person. He's more positive."
"Before, he was into himself," Santana said. "Now he looks to us. He wants to know how we're doing. I can talk to him about what's going on with me."
John Parker has taken Santana, who likes to sing, with him to a few of his bell-ringing stations. For her help, he has shared some of his pay so that she can buy gifts for Christmas.
Earlier in the season, Gugala said the kettles were not only beneficial in raising money for the Salvation Army's mission work, but also as an effort to put people to work who have been finding it difficult to find employment.
Gugala looks at the bell ringing as a first step back into the working world for people like Parker. With Gugala's help, Parker has landed a job beginning after Christmas as a builder of log home kits.
John Parker said he doesn't expect to get rich quick, but it is nice to just be able to pay his electric bill.
"I don't need money as long as I have God," Parker said. (
Story—©Ken Ritchie/The Madison Courier)
John Parker laughs at his step daughter Santana Hendricks as she pulls his Santa hat down over her head. Parker wears the hat while working as a bell ringer for the Salvation Army. "It keeps your head warmer than you'd think," he said. Parker's bell ringing job — his first employment in a long while — has proved to be a gateway into a steady job. With help from Salvation Army Capt. Gary Gugala, Parker secured a job starting after Christmas as a builder of residential log home kits. (©Ken Ritchie/The Madison Courier)